Communication problems and mistakes people makes.
Not truly listening.
When are communicating with someone, we are often
are not committing our full attention. We might be looking at our phones,
watching television, or even daydreaming about something else. To avoid
communication mishaps, it is about to give the speakers 100% of our attention.
Effective listening skills include making eye contact, asking clarifying
questions, and remaining engaged.
Assuming you know the message before the
person finishes.
We have all done it. We are listening to a friend
speak, and we already assume we know what is going to be said before they
finish their sentences. When we assume we know what the person will
say, we miss what is actually being said. Honer the speaker by remaining openly
curious and listening intently for the message rather than predicting what will
be said.
Interrupting the speaker.
We’ve probably all interrupting can make a person
feel invalidated, as if what they have to say is unimportant. Have respect for
the other person and allow them to finish the massage entirely before you
respond.
Letting you emotion dictate your
response.
When we react emotionally, we are likely to say
things we don’t mean. A good communicator allows emotions to it for a while and
then choose to carefully respond rather than react.
Failing to account for cultural differences in
communication.
Cross-cultural communication can be
difficult. Words can take on different
meaning, and cultural norms surrounding nonverbal communication may vary. When
communicating with people from other cultural backgrounds, it’s important to
account for cultural differences in communication style. If we don’t, we may
accidentally offend or miscommunicate with someone.
Misinterpreting the message.
We may misinterpret others more often than we think.
To avoid this, it is better to give the person our full attention and
paraphrase the message back to the speaker to ensure we have understood
correctly.
Being indirect.
Being subtle and or indirect communication is
usually ineffective. We cant expect other people to read our minds. If you want
someone to understand yo, try to understand you, try being direct and try not
to beat around the bush in conversation.
Avoiding difficult conversations.
When faced with the possibility of a difficult
conversation, many people choose to avoid or prolong the conversation as long
as possible. People usually perceive a conversation as difficult when they are
faced with telling someone something that person doesn’t want to hear. It might
be delivering bad news or beginning up a conflict of interest.

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